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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 23, 2010 22:04:44 GMT -5
I am yet again confused about some stuff. My current donor, who has been my donor for a VERY long time is now coming out to me that she is addicted to my feeding and when I don't feed or refuse to feed until blood work results are returned, she flips out and becomes very stubborn and insubordinate I guess you could say. I am attaching an unreplied to letter I sent out a few days ago to see if anyone else understands or could help me interpret this issue more; "...I just asked my donor with whom I have been with for almost 4 years, to get her blood tested for the standard Iron levels and CBC's and what not, however she does have diabetes, she drinks WAY too much caffeine, she is constantly stressed, she eats nothing but crap and she is on anti-depressants. NOW this seems to be a VERY bad situation for her and I at the moment. I wasn't sure if the anti depressant Zoloft could effect me too harshly amongst the issue that I also have the same/similar issues as she does and then there is also the matter of her stress, and overall physical health as well. How could this effect me? I realize when I feed from her when she pretends not to be so angry or sad and depressed that I get extremely nauseated and cranky to the point that NO one wants to be around me, not even myself! Therefore I feel as if I need to find another donor, which I cannot seem to do...." This is the main part of the letter that has the question in it...anyone who can help I will love forever! XP ;D
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Post by crypticdarkness09 on Mar 24, 2010 2:18:20 GMT -5
well before you start feeding with the new donor make sure there blood is good. because you could get aids, hepatisis C ect. I was a donor for awhile it was a cycle I feed off the inimacy and he fed off my blood. so I understand what your going through that it can be difficult. I think she may just find the feeding a sexual thing as portrayed in cheesy twilight and new moon. but as for the zoloft it shouldn't dramatically effect you as long as she takes it several hours before you feed. the person I was being a donor for never got high because I am on a anti-depressants it was more of a blood type high. so no I don't think the zoloft can effect you.
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Post by bomb on Mar 24, 2010 7:11:00 GMT -5
"...I just asked my donor with whom I have been with for almost 4 years, to get her blood tested for the standard Iron levels and CBC's and what not, however she does have diabetes, she drinks WAY too much caffeine, she is constantly stressed, she eats nothing but crap and she is on anti-depressants. NOW this seems to be a VERY bad situation for her and I at the moment. I wasn't sure if the anti depressant Zoloft could effect me too harshly amongst the issue that I also have the same/similar issues as she does and then there is also the matter of her stress, and overall physical health as well. How could this effect me? I realize when I feed from her when she pretends not to be so angry or sad and depressed that I get extremely nauseated and cranky to the point that NO one wants to be around me, not even myself! Therefore I feel as if I need to find another donor, which I cannot seem to do...." This is the main part of the letter that has the question in it...anyone who can help I will love forever! XP ;D tell me, how long has it been since you last fed from her? I'm going to say something that applies to anyone who reads it. There is one major difference between vampires and humans. put aside the senses, sensitivity to light, night vision, nocturnalism, etc. and your left with one thing. blood. Vampires drink blood because they can, and have the urge to. humans don't drink blood because they can't, they're stomaches dont allow it. if a human does drink blood, it will probably taste nasty to them. then again some build a tolerance to it and drink it anyways. same with vampires. vampires don't have to drink blood. inside every person, vampire or not, lies some form of dormant psychic power. at all times, our brains work about 10% of maximum capacity, leaving the 90% unused. vampires themselves are extra-sensitive to what is in the blood, that is why you must be so careful.anything the person had at that time has a possibility of being carried over. if that person was stressed or depressed, 90 of the time you will b as well. any medications the person is on will be taken into your system as well. remember feeding isn't neccesary. ~bomb~
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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 24, 2010 12:41:01 GMT -5
Okay awesome that definitely makes me feel a LOT better. Her blood test results come back tomorrow and I am a little weary on what they might read. I had last fed from her I think approximately on March 7th (about 2 weeks and 2 days) I can usually hold out for a while, just with all of this stuff at school going on (end of the quarter. getting things handed in on time...etc...) I have been using up ALL of my energy on this, getting absolutely little to NO sleep every night because I'm quite the nocturnal one unfortunately. I get really cranky and sometimes even so low on energy that I come close to passing out without feeding. its been so long...
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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 24, 2010 13:37:56 GMT -5
Okay update...my donor's blood results are in...all I know thus far (I asked her to request documentation of all the results to be mailed to her and given to me so I can know the cbc's and all the other important stuffss.)
Iron level : low Borderline diabetic STD free.
THIS is all I know as of now...would you consider it safe to feed tomorrow or should I wait until her iron levels are higher?
Please let me know asap.
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Post by bomb on Mar 24, 2010 13:50:29 GMT -5
yes it's fine, just watch the blood flow- low iron means the blood is thinner, and easier to lose much blood.
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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 24, 2010 13:54:27 GMT -5
Okay. thank you thank you thank you I am so much happier and so is she.
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Post by bomb on Mar 25, 2010 7:13:59 GMT -5
no problem, im here to help. any more questions?
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Post by crypticdarkness09 on Mar 25, 2010 12:31:22 GMT -5
I hope everything works out with you to. just curious you don't have to tell me are you dating your donor?
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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 25, 2010 14:09:11 GMT -5
Thank you again for all the help. I fed today and feel MUCH better and she does as well. Yes I am actually dating my donor It is a very controversial thing as you probably already know, which is why I never mentioned it before.
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Post by bomb on Mar 26, 2010 5:31:53 GMT -5
it is fine if you are dating your donor.
there is one thing about this site that not many places in the world are.
we are completely unbiased. you could be black white, asian, etc. you could be gay or straight. none of us will judge you not matter what, because we are all equals among our kind. you could be dating a monkey and i wouldnt think twice about it. so please, be completely honest. were talking about vampirism here, not your sex life.
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Post by crypticdarkness09 on Mar 26, 2010 11:34:20 GMT -5
thank you for sharing that bomb, I was just asking a question I wouldn't care otherwise what the answer is.
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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 26, 2010 22:15:43 GMT -5
Yes, I realize, the topic just really hadn't come up so I didn't feel it was necessary to bring it up. :/
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Post by crypticdarkness09 on Mar 27, 2010 12:47:12 GMT -5
alrighty it seems stange it kind of for my own research that donors end up dating the vampires in some shape or form most of the time. please note this is just from what I have observed.
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Post by crimsonxphotograph on Mar 27, 2010 14:53:17 GMT -5
I understand, from stories and what not that others have shared personally or online for others' use as guidance I have also noticed similar behaviors.
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